"I've done such a great job at pretending to be normal that nobody really believes that I have Asperger’s”
I’ve been a keen observer of Asperger folk for many years. I’ve even prided myself on being a bit of an Aspie-whisperer with loved ones and colleagues. I’ve been a Henrick to a Saga, a Leonard to a Sheldon, a Watson to a Sherlock. I’m married to a wonderful person who is on the ASD spectrum - our relationship of 10 years has been the source of some of the happiest days of my life but our communication difficulties mean that we regularly confront painful times.
This weekend I had perhaps one of the biggest emotional meltdowns I’ve ever had - to the point of being unable to function properly for several days. However, I hid most of it from everyone around me. All they say was me being unwell, in pain and unable to come along to social functions.( Read more... )